A few
weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the basement
with a steaming cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in
the other. I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band
on my ham radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap net.
Along the way, I came across an older sounding chap, with a
tremendous signal and a golden voice. He was telling whoever he
was talking with something about "a thousand marbles."
I was intrigued and stopped to listen to what he had to say.
"Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you're busy with your job.
I'm sure they pay you well but it's a shame you have to be away
from home and your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow
should have to work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends
meet. Too bad you missed your daughter's dance recital." He
continued, "Let me tell you something Tom, something that has
helped me keep a good perspective on my own priorities." And
that's when he began to explain his theory of a "thousand
marbles." "You see, I sat down one day and did a little
arithmetic. The average person lives about seventy-five years. I
know, some live more and some live less, but on average, folks
live about seventy-five years. Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52
and I came up with 3900 which is the number of Saturdays that the
average person has in their entire lifetime.
Now stick with me Tom, I'm getting to the important part. It took
me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in any
detail," he went on, "and by that time I had lived
through over twenty-eight hundred Saturdays. I got to thinking
that if I lived to be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of
them left to enjoy. So I went to a toy store and bought every
single marble they had. I ended up having to visit three toy
stores to roundup 1000 marbles. I took them home and put them
inside of a large, clear plastic container right here in the shack
next to my gear.
Every Saturday
since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it away. I
found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on the
really important things in life. There is nothing like watching
your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities
straight.
Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign-off with you and
take my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the
very last marble out of the container. I figure if I make it until
next Saturday then I have been given a little extra time. And the
one thing we can all use is a little more time. It was nice to
meet you
Tom, I hope you spend more time with your family, and I hope to
meet you again here on the band. 75 year Old Man, this is K9NZQ,
clear and going QRT, good morning!"
You could have heard a pin drop on the band when this
fellow signed off. I guess he gave us all a lot to
think about. I had planned to work on the antenna that
morning, and then I was going to meet up with a few
hams to work on the next club newsletter. Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. "C'mon honey, I'm taking you and the kids to breakfast."
"What brought this on?" she asked with a smile.
"Oh, nothing special, it's just been a long time
since we spent a Saturday together with the kids.
Hey, can we stop at a toy store while we're out?
I need to buy some marbles."
Author Unknown
If you have made it through this and
don't have a knot in your chest, a lump in your throat and a tear
in your eye, you're a stronger person than most. Think about
it............Life's really short and there are no promises of
tomorrow!
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